The World
August -- "2012" and male and female energies

by Dr Joseph Costa
If there is one thing about the human people on this Planet one should know or understand it is that we evolve and learn.  Evolving is not a choice, it is a given -- learning is how we transcend our next stage of existence.

As we examine humankind for ourselves to understand I think about the fear of male and female.  This begins as a process my own life experience.  Today 84 years I can look back and say, even though my father beat me I was more fearful of my mother than my father.

My father hit me brutally many times yet I can safely say I feared my mother more.  Not because my mother beat me but because I feared losing her affection.  I could wipe the blood off my nose when my father hit me -- but -- I could not rid myself of the pain in my heart if my mother rejected me.

Today I have realization of the why of this situation -- of the fear the male of the loss or rejection of the female upon the male.  As a transpersonal psychologist I realize after all the cases studied -- this play or fear of rejection in the male when threatened with loss of the female is such reality.

Not just because of the many male to female case histories I have researched, but because of the dynamics of or about the human male's need for energy of the female, it is so important for both sexes to balance energies between one another: The male derives his real powers, mentally and physically, from his psychic relations to the opposite sex -- the woman -- or female.

I will pass over all the research and discoveries I have noted over my life to say everyone -- male or female -- can easily find evidence or truths of the need of the male for the female and vice verse.

That being so-called "gay" or sexually interested in a person of the same sex has and is flourishing now in the years of 2012 is not surprising, when we check the record of human behavior in the past and examine the history of women rising into more and more seemingly apparent need to become masculine.

Rather than point out historical reports of women reigning as masculine warriors -- I find it important to say, take note of behaviors today in society as the female rises in power socially and figuratively over males in power on many levels of human activities.

In the world today we find women at the controls of destructive forces capable of killing hundreds of men, women and children as they command destructive machines.  A position in human life directly opposite of the true nature of the human female -- the female is born in human life to nurture and heal -- to make life healthy and nourishing.

The female is born to hold dear and breast-feed the human being.  Nursing is her natural expression whether she is feeding a baby nutrients or a grown male who sucks at her breasts in an effort to get psychic nourishment to renew his abilities to deal with the physical and mental demands on his life.

Often in desperation the male will pound at the body of the female to exact relief and sensual or kundalini powers for himself and his mate.  When he succeeds in replenishing his psychic energy powers that orgasm he escapes reality and usually sinks into a short coma -- his only escape from the constant demands of life and the fears of being insufficient in life.

I explain this common dynamic of the nurturing by the female for the renewal of the male, to point out the human and psychical dynamic of the basic bonding and feeding of female to male and vice versa.  When the male peaks during the nurturing that is often frantic for both male and female -- the male escapes human reality sinking often into a cosmic sleep and is disconnected from the constant demand of the nurturer -- the woman.

The female side of the above dynamics is the release in the female psyche that comes as satisfaction to the female.

On awakening in the normal satisfied pose of escape from reality the mail he is desirous of rewarding the female -- it is at this point the female needs demand -- in a true use of psychic power -- from the male -- what she needs to secure her place in life.

All that I have revealed of the dynamics of what most people accept as demands of relating is an actual play on the (or of the) psychic and material energies of the human male and female bonding.

What does all this have to do with classes for women to learn about yin and yang energies?  Everything!  What I have just written is an example of the male/female true relationship as the yin of the female "recharges" the yang energy "coils" replacing the male's ability to do for itself and the female he "bonds" to psychically.

A woman got a hold on a man and pushed him one way and another way without so much as opening her mouth. Sensing her all around him, a man didn't feel like his own self sometimes. He wanted to shake loose and say "to hell with it" and strike out somewhere, with nothing hanging on to him of what he had been or what he had done. He wouldn't do it though, not if he had a woman like Teal Eye."

The Home Perspective
The Roles Of The Male And Female

Co Director of The 15th Step Program

I think I can safely say, thanks to the 15th step process my husband is still alive! Only joking, no actually thinking about it, I'm not. There has been many times over the past 6 years where my thinking about my relationship with Mark has proven to be very unclear until guidance on the 15th Step has showed me the truth of the matter at hand. In our own hurt we see little of what is really been said or shown in others actions. We feel and absorbed only what our state of consciousness allows and until we all reach Nirvana we may well have to face the fact that we are not always right (damn)!

During my years of first listening, then learning and now teaching at the Institute of Thought I have heard lots of statements and facts that I have had a disagreement or physical reaction to. I know at times I have not allowed myself to stay open to new behavior purely because I, like many, fear the unknown. It has taken time and trust and wisdom from my guides to let go and evolve into the women I truly am, not what collective consciousness tells me I am every day by letting yang thoughts take over my thinking.

Everyday is a working progress to stay in my female energy and feel safe there. Everyday I allow my husband to be in his male energy more and more, knowing we will balance and be able to stay in harmony eventually.

The more work World Healers do to cleanse the consciousness of confusion about who we really are as males and females, the easier every day will become for all of us.

This piece below was written after a 15th Step session. My question was, help me understand the male and the females roles so I can be the real me!

Understanding Roles Of The Male And Female

The male is the strength of the unit
The central pole that supports all the structures around him
He is a source of dependency
The male is the wind, blowing material into matter
He lifts and moves the heavy load for the women to do her work
The male's role in a partnership is to be the backbone of the union
If there is a phone call to be made, he will make it
If something has to be done he will do it
If the wiman comes across any kind of hurdle the man removes it in order for her to maintain their every day existence.
He is like the worker bee; he takes nothing and creates something on the request of the female.
She turns in circles keeping all around her running smoothly
Whilst he drills the hole for her to smooth over
He clears her path so she can pass through life with comfort and security to do her role freely as the female, upholding and maintaining their unit
If both roles do what they were intended to do, there is truth in the word Partnership

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